| Talking about sex |
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| Sunday, 04 April 2010 03:18 | |||||
 We have the habit of not talking about sex. Unless the 'canned bar' on
the other sex, more about who can. Do not talk to your partner about
what you feel, what you like and its limits. Attend one on the costumes and be aware of who likes or is not essential for a healthy and satisfying sexual practice. Ie be inclined to talk in earnest is essential to providing an atmosphere of delivery. Female on the ground, only half of women are known to able to say as he prefers to be played: the cultural factor that even after the claims by the right to enjoy fully of sexuality and social changes that have encouraged the progress in various aspects, its eroticism continues to be perceived very limited. Afraid of being ridiculed or criticized, women do not usually have sexual initiative. It's called 'good girl syndrome'. Some men like to have divided this task with them, but there are many that were created with the idea that to be earned and not conquer. Maybe, have a conversation that might be embarrassing. They were not prepared or educated to do so. But we must bear in mind that you should not be ashamed of feelings, be they of what nature is. But also, it is necessary to deliver the whole game right away. You can go slowly revealing more intimate, as the relationship becomes more mature and confident. Need not be ashamed or afraid to ask. Still, if (a) partner (a) does not understand, demonstrate how he likes to be touched. A good tactic is to watch what he (a) does to you. Normally we do with others what we would like him to do with us. And so, you'll become an eye on it (a) requests. Besides, good sex is not necessarily the one spoken or shouted. Every touch is spoken, every sensation may (or may not) be translated into words. The body takes care of many things, including pleasure to demonstrate, since the sexual response begins in the imagination and will be moving to the directions that indicate through body changes. So, express your insofar as it is without meaning to push or break the mood. Key this time is to oppose prejudice. When we talk about sex, there is no right or wrong, there is what makes sense and works with your way of being. But you can not forget you're a duo, then consider the values and see what can be enriching and enjoyable for all who are involved. Another important factor to remember: bed is not the catwalk. Women are lost in their own physical concerns and forget to take pleasure in staying posing and thus fail to surrender to sex, brewing anxiety. Sex, less is that perfect body makeup by photoshop in magazines. Men actually pay more attention to the seduction and surrender of the partner and the desire it provokes than that little fat that insists on living there. Doubt the belief that only by offering something spectacular able to be loved. And remember that many times, anxiety is an intense and irrational fear and releasing hormones that do not allow the excitement over, often by reinforcing some symptoms. As for men, something feared is the size of the penis, believing that it can interfere with pleasure. The man becomes the body itself, and the body becomes the man. Sometimes the preoccupation with the penis, actually refers to a feeling of decline in life in general and eventually serving as an explanation for not relate to other people. Another thing that affects male behavior in time "H" is the charge on sexual frequency, availability for sex and the amount of time a man can maintain an erection. This pressure may leave no room to feel desire. Part of the popular imagination that man will be with his thoughts turned to sex. The culture also reinforces this place and he may feel constrained by such charges and end up trading quality for quantity. In male chauvinism, men, can never fail, always have to be willing and available. This rule is costly since they can not simulate an erection, and thus can not see sex as a pleasant exchange of affection. Both also find themselves coerced to other issues. Prisoners dictatorship of orgasms, she sees sex as proof that "bells and fireworks there." The man sees it as a proof to be met, something to be offered - for both. Orgasm is something that flows naturally from an exchange of affection with no obligation. If you do not like each other, hardly anyone will like. Discover how to value can be a slow process, connected with the way he realizes his own limits. This is a process that allows rich new ways of being in contact with each other, with themselves, with the world. Give yourself as a person, your body and your partner. Take care of your desires, take yourself seriously, and the roster. Pretend that whatever it is, look for something utopian to find, if you press a perfect layout, daily strip her of sexual pleasure and even playful way of being in contact with whom he likes. An aphrodisiac is still good to feel loved by their partner and the partner to feel amazed by the partner. Sex is more than an intimate encounter where there is less respect for the partnership, no surrender, no involvement, no prazer.Evite expectations and allow yourself to feel this. Intimacy is achieved by time, by an alliance invisible. If you are the person chosen at will, everything will flow naturally. Fight fear before any surrender, so that delivery can be given in full, no regrets or fears. Do not force the bar, if you do not feel safe, but do not be overcome by insecurity.
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