Dress is the ability to mentally invent things or situations. Everyone
can dress
(or daydream) about different situations: a machine that uses a car to
buy, a
body after diet and exercise ... Fantasies sexual desires or impulses
are
externalized initially through the imagination, where much is allowed
and very
little censorship is part of the plot, so you can enjoy various sexual
situations beyond the border of reality.
Its main function is to permit certain sexual desires in connection with
the
difficult reality can be satisfied, acting as substitutes for real
experience,
and help focus their own body sensations and improving sexual knowledge.
One can
also say that sexual fantasy is a seasoning for the libido, increasing
pleasure
in sexual activity, being a safe way to experiment with sex.
SEXUAL FANTASIES | Health
Many sexual fantasies are turned into reality and many others serve as a
stimulus for sexual relationship or because the relationship is warm or because
it wants to increase it a little more. However, many costumes are the way they
are bold because they ignore the limits that are on the other side: AIDS and its
risks, the woman's best friend, very strict standards, morals, ethics,
censorship ... All that is left out.
So perhaps it is too dangerous and risky to put all fantasies into practice.
Want is not always able and sometimes more healthy is who perceives this barrier
and not get hurt crossing the limits, the one that thinks everything is valid
and allowed. The identification of what can be implemented and what must remain
in the realm of fantasy can only happen when you have a good sense of himself
and his partner (a) and limits of sexual and emotional.
Permits the creation without sticking in censorship, but think before you act.
Use common sense and assess the consequences. If signs of warning, contains
itself, since it is still better than the fantasy in the imagination. If the
signal is green, you can go ahead and release it to put into practice what once
was part of the virtual.
Remember, fantasy is not something wrong or abnormal, other than embarrass and /
or requiring a partner. They are normal, healthy and able to strengthen the
relationship, maintaining the complicity and intimacy. Moreover, they are
capable of alleviating the anxiety, increase self-esteem, allow repressed
emotions and perceptions and tackle the routine. The danger is not in fantasy
but in shame and fear that can accompany it.
Negative feelings do not match the full sexuality. If it is appropriate for both
the fantasy serves to stimulate, entertain and educate about the preferences,
and revitalize sex. But the fear of misinterpretation by (a) partner (a) and
repressive education, limit the imagination and desire, leading to bed instead
of the fantasy that a judge condemned the vicious, and seeks only the supposedly
acceptable. The act of 'fancy food' can be considered inappropriate for some,
because much of life is rational and predictable, and fantasy is deviating from
the stereotypes and be happy.
Sexual fantasy and the Internet
The search for erotic sites is growing. The Internet has democratized the sex
with the possibility of pressing a few keys and go against a world without
censorship. The safety of anonymity works offering more excitement to the sex
lives of all ages. The boundary of such behavior, between the healthy and vice,
is tenuous.
But what characterizes addiction is the lack of relationship with others, using
only the virtual fantasy as a form of desire and pleasure. Typically, they
reveal people who have difficulty relating and expose themselves. The intention
is to enhance the fantasy sex life and not dodge it.
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